In Parts 1 and 2 of this series I’ve discussed my journey with the boys all having been breastfed and what baby led weaning means for our family.  A lot of people tell us, regularly, how “lucky” we are that the boys are such great eaters.  Matt and I believe that a very small margin of children will have food aversions and allergies that prevent them from being good eaters, I think most children could be if pointed in the right direction.  We contribute a large part of the success to feeding them well and exposing them to good, flavorful, healthful foods from their first bites.  Here’s how we do it:

  • Our first foods are always bananas and avocados. We like to put them in these mesh food bags and let the babies gum on them for a while.  It helps us determine if the baby is ready to swallow (do they nurse the bag or do they suck food particles out and swallow them).  Finian was happy with this for a few weeks; he was just so desperate to eat food at the table with us.  Cole and Wes moved on rather quickly, since their desire was more driven by actual eating and not wanting to do what we were doing.
  • When the children showed signs of swallowing and wanting more quantity, we ground food up in the food processor or smooshed it with a fork. Foods that worked well for us, until we transitioned to giving them food directly from the table, were:
    • Liver (from pastured chicken or beef) is a wonderful food for babies (anyone really).  It’s extremely high in nutrients and has a crumbly texture perfect for babies.  We pan cook ours in coconut oil and then freeze in individual containers.
    • We also roast fruit and veggies (cut in half, scoop seeds, leave skin on and cook at high temp until soft) in the oven, it brings out the sweetness they’re used to from breastmilk and makes it soft so you can spoon feed apples, plums, pumpkin, carrots, butternut squash, sweet potatoes, anything really.  We’ve made our applesauce recipe with pears and other fruit and Wes as well as the whole family thoroughly enjoyed it!

We still sometimes give Wes avocados before bed because they’re SO high in good fats – there is an absolute tie to his ability to sleep through the night if he’s given a big dinner or snacks high in fat and protein!

We’ve never given any of our boys rice cereal.  For a breastfed baby, fortified iron isn’t necessary because the absorption of breast milk is easier and more nutrient dense.  Around 6 months formula fed babies need additional iron supplementation, which is why doctors really encourage it.  If your Pediatrician is pushing rice cereal, despite knowing your baby is exclusively breastfed, it’s my opinion you need a new doc who understands nutrition better.

It’s hard to find shelf-stable snack foods when you’re transitioning from exclusively breastfeeding to giving snacks.  It takes effort to pack baby foods.  I suggest keeping a couple of containers in the freezer with a variety of foods packed together (liver, roasted fruit, roasted veggie and some baby “guacamole”).  When you’re leaving, throw it in the diaper bag and it’ll be thawed and ready to serve when you need it in a few hours.  You can also prep sliced bell peppers, halved-grapes and berries to be at-the-ready to grab and go.

Other ideas for the glove box are freeze dried fruit, squeeze applesauce, a banana, or coconut flakes.  If you’re at a restaurant, ask for a side of steamed broccoli or spinach.  All are MUCH better choices than Gerber puffs. Despite not eating Paleo years ago, we still (nearly) followed a Paleo diet (we did do legumes but didn’t with Wes) and our babies became the healthiest, heartiest, strongest, smartest, best eating children we know (no bias).  Trust yourself, but more than that, trust your baby to tell you what and how much to eat.  If you’re offering nutrient dense and healthful foods, only good things can come of that.

 

About Stacy

Stacy Toth has written 307 post in this blog.

Stacy is the matriarch of the Paleo Parents family. After beginning a paleo diet and founding PaleoParents.com in 2010, she lost 135 pounds and found health and happiness for the whole family. The following three years have been a progressive journey with a mission to educate people about nourishing their bodies by eating real foods. Stacy can be found on all forms of social media as @PaleoParents as well as the top-rated The Paleo View Podcast and her two cookbooks, Eat Like a Dinosaur and Beyond Bacon.

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  • Thechuubbygrl

    Hi there, loving your paleo/baby led weaning posts.  We’re a new to paleo family with a 5 month old who is about to start real foods soon.  I don’t want her on any types of grain at all, the problem is she takes formula and as you said formula babies need that extra iron.  Would you happen to have any other suggestions on how she could get her iron without resorting to rice cereal?  

    • http://PaleoParents.com Stacy & Matt

      I am no medical expert; however, I would think that giving your baby natural iron-rich food sources with naturally occurring fats are going to be more soluable than any “fortified” product.  Our go-to iron-rich source for starting solids was liver.  Pastured chicken-liver is paletable for you to make (even if you don’t like organ meat) and it’s very affordable from your local farmer.  Load her up and puree that stuff into everything else you make her so she’s always getting a dose.  There’s other iron-rich food, but from what I remember liver is the most dense and easily absorbed.  Good luck!

  • Erickaelajli

    I am a paleo mommy and I was curious to learn about others that were. I was really enjoying this blog until I got the formula is like chicken nuggets part. It was really hurtful as I could not provide breastmilk for my 3 month old due to extensive breast surgery at age 18. The alternative of course was formula. Breast milk of course is ideal when possible. That is no secret as it is pounded in every new mom brains.
    But formula does help babies thrive and it contains the complete nutrition an infant needs. Chicken nuggets does not. 

    • http://PaleoParents.com Stacy & Matt

      Ericka,

      I think we’re both saying the same thing; I agree that breastmilk is best but there are absolute reasons why formula is the magic of human invention - one of those reasons of course is the medical necessity due to low or lack of supply from the mother. 

      Were that my situation, I would seek a milk donor or bank and do everything I could to provide the natural, biologically derived food I could for my baby.  Not all people can afford or are comfortable with that, or maybe it’s not enough, so that’s where my analogy from the This Week In Paleo post (http://paleoparents.com/2011/breastfeeding-advice-from-a-recovered-boob-nazi/) came in.  In particular, the blog’s writer was  himself supplementing his daugher in order to help her grow and thrive.

      Would formula (i.e. chicken nuggets) be the first choice for any parent?  Probably not.  But, when it comes to necessity of any kind it gets the job done.  Chicken nuggets might not be the best, but they do offer nutrients to sustain growth and energy – unlike, fruit which my child could not live off of for 6 months without any fat or protein. 

      I think calling formula complete nutrition is debatable, but it absolutely helps babies thrive.  I myself am happy to have not starved to death as an infant, and it’s because of formula that many children I love and adore are running around and playing with my boys.  The analogy is meant to make one think: formula is a manufactured food with ingredients I wouldn’t now feed to my older children (hydrolized fats, MSG (http://www.truthinlabeling.org/formulacopy.html), etc.) normally – but, were I in a pinch and that my choice in order to see my child grow – you bet I’d be buying them buy the dozens.

      I hope you continue to read and contribute, being a Paleo parent has become the center of our lives and means a great deal to us.  It’s wonderful to get feedback to help us think critically and interact with our peers.  Thanks!

  • Monifah

    Hi Stacy and Matt,
    My baby (nr 3) is almost six months (exclusively breastfed) and i want to start on giving her solids, the other two were fed ‘standard’ porridge and such, any ideas of what i can start with besides avocado and banana? really don’t want her to get used to anything too sweet too soon, even though the others are eating well, their staple is still carbs, partly due to non participting dad and grandparents, but i spend most time with them so i throw in changes as much as i can. (also waiting eagerly for the cookbook still). Pumpkin/egg yolks/sweet potato/carrot and liver (have to find out where i can get that pastured though here in denmark). What about brocolli and spinach?? When can i start giving those? Thanks for the inf, it’s really appreciated!!!! Hugs from denmark

    • Monifah

      I make a lot of bone broth too, when can i start mixing it in for her??

      • http://PaleoParents.com Stacy & Matt

        If you’re still pureeing and spooning yourself, bone broth would be excellent to puree into your more hardy vegetables like winter squash and carrots and the like!

    • Monifah

      Also don’t want her to become orange with all those beta carote high foods, lol

      • http://PaleoParents.com Stacy & Matt

        I feel like Matt answered anything I would’ve said. I want to reiterate that babies will pick appropriate macro and micro-nutrients to help their developmental needs – just keep offering a variety, but if they always choose sweet starches don’t worry! That’s what tastes most similar to your breast milk and they will eventually branch out when they’re ready (if you eat a variety of foods and offer it).

        Also important, is treating them as an equal.  Eat together. If they see you eat meat or other foods, they’ll be more likely to eat it themselves.

        • Monifah

          Thanks so much for your replies, i find it really difficult to get my 3 and 6 yr old to eat more veg, no matter how many different things i offer, and no matter what different ways i prepare them. So I really want the baby to start out with  liking for veg. I also tried with the other two but didn’t really succeed (yet!) And we do eat together every night (and it is often not very pleasant, lol) and they see me eat all kinds of veg, prepared and raw, but they haven’t fallen for it. They do eat carrot, cucumber and tomato raw and the rest i mix in dinner, chopped up/sauteed/pureed etc and they help me cook, cut things up and everything but nope. How long did it take for your kids to get a liking for more veg and less bread/pasta/rice etc??? Thanks soooo much for taking the time to answer. Making ‘my’ staple granola for breakfast tomorrow as we speak (your fantastic granola that is) at least my 3 yr old loves to eat that ;o)

          • http://PaleoParents.com Stacy & Matt

            I don’t think it took long. To be honest, we’ve always served them so it was a matter of no longer making the bread and rice rather than switching anything. We do employ a few tricks. Both the 3 year old and the 6 year old are aware that their tastes buds change completely every 6 months so foods they didn’t like before may taste different now. They also have been told that everything on their plate ought to be tried before they refuse to eat it. We try to flavor more unfamiliar or unliked foods with flavors they do like. That way roasted butternut squash is cinnamon flavored and the cauliflower is Thai curry flavored, etc. Also, it may be good to avoid serving anything “surefire” with a new food. I know that if I’m going to cook something new, I better not also serve sweet potatoes. I try to work with them on these things though. There will be some foods that just never appeal to them and I have to be okay with that. But if their palate is completely bland, that’s something I need to help them change. Hope that helps!

          • Monifah

            Thanks again for your answer. They have been served veg always too but still it’s difficult. They have to try everything (at least one bite before having an opinion about it) I also avoid serving rice/pasta/bread but when their dad is home he eats it so they automatically eat it too.. It’s difficult, but hopefully we will get there :o ). Have a great weekend and thanks so much for your blog, hope the cookbook is finished soon! 

    • http://PaleoParents.com Stacy & Matt

      First of all, Stacy’s been sick in bed all this weekend and she’d be able to answer more thoroughly than I when she is better.

      Personally, at that age worrying about macronutrient balance is not really necessary. Babies have none of the social conditioning that leads to them choosing poor foods consistently. As long as foods are available, they’ll follow their actual nutrition based cravings to feed their bodies. For example, we don’t give Wesley many sweets, but we can tell when he’s going through a growth spurt when he starts reaching for starches and fruit all the time. In non-growing times, he’s much more inclined to eat meat.

      Broccoli and cauliflower are good choices, steamed and cut small, of course, but spinach, lettuce and other greens not so much. Often they have a hard time swallowing them properly for a long time. Instead, Brussels sprouts would be a good choice. Summer squashes were a big staple for us too.

      For the most part, other than peanuts (which now we wouldn’t serve anyway) and honey (based more on hearsay about botulism), we figured that if he could eat it without choking, we could serve it.

      Hope that helps! Sorry for the delay in response!

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